We simply had a quarrel in which he said you will find males regarding the police who will be within the cabinet and choose to do this. It was said by him’s easier for the guys to disguise their sex than females in the force. Is he providing me signals? Have always been We being paranoid? – “A Sista Would Like To Know”

Dear “A Sista Desires To Know, ”

WOW! Ms. Honey, my goal is to individually started to north park myself and knock some feeling to your mind. I am talking about actually. You’ve been dating a person whom lives an additional town for the last a decade in which he hasn’t expected you to definitely marry him? Actually, woman.

My goal is to return to that certain, so let’s address if he’s giving you signals about their sex of course you have got the directly to be paranoid.

Okay, wait one minute. Pause. I’m still bugging. He’s within the Bay you’re and area in hillcrest. 10 years of dating with no wedding? GIRL.

I’ve recollected myself again. Now, he’s fully mindful of down low women and men on the police force because he works with them. He’s told you about them. He also went so far as to provide you with a conclusion of why it is easier for males to full cover up their sex than ladies. He’s obviously been speaking about the topic with a few of their authorities pals, or feasible certainly one of their down low police brethren. That does not make him homosexual. He probably was interested to realize there were policemen that are undercover gay he was dealing with them.

As he visits you and inquires about Hillcrest, the mostly gay community, now that does raise a banner.

You and inquires about Hillcrest, the largely gay community, now that does raise a flag when he visits. What exactly is he inquiring about? But, the actual fact which he had for a bracelet with all the homosexual rainbow colors and a brief necklace, and then he didn’t know it represented an individual who had been homosexual. We ain’t buying that reason. He’s an officer. I know he has knowledge or happens to be trained to observe individuals, actions, and symbols, particularly the colors that represent the rainbow that is gay in which he is through the Bay area. Naw, that is not traveling by.

But, i wish to share something you with women. Some guys, in privacy, at once or any other, have actually taken their “Johnsons” between their feet to see just what it appears to be like. I’ve seen men do so playfully within the locker room. Did i believe these people were homosexual? No, perhaps not at all. It is for gags. I do believe some guys have particular fascination to understand what it could seem like if it had been not there. Just like I think ladies fanaticize when they possessed a penis.

Nonetheless, woman, i actually do think he’s got homosexual tendencies and is homosexual inquisitive.

Nevertheless, woman, i really do think he’s got homosexual tendencies and is homosexual wondering. Particularly following the reality whenever you questioned him and then he flipped down. If he’s not gay he then wouldn’t have that upset and stop talking to you. I do believe you hit a sore spot with him because he might secretly discover the read what he said gay life fascinating, when I think some men secretly do. We mean think about it, our company is fabulous. We’ve enjoyable so we do not have nagging problem expressing ourselves. Does it suggest their interest makes him homosexual? No. Does which make him suspect? No. He does items that would make one suspect him to be homosexual, but we gather he could be right.

But, Ms. A-Sista-Wants-To-Know, I am going back once again to the fact he’s another town and also you’ve been dating a decade. Woman, get a move and grip on. He’s maybe perhaps perhaps not planning to marry you. Why should he? He could be everything that is getting wants away from you minus the title or paper. I would personallyn’t be amazed in San Diego if he has another woman in the Bay area when he is not with you. Move ahead, honey. We don’t realize women who hold on to a guy as you are hopeful for just one time, or he might, or he can alter. WOMAN, Poof! Disappear. – Directly, From Your Own Gay Closest Friend!