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Hi, Party Chitchat,

My cousin are 37 years old features already been along with his recent girlfriend for upwards of 5 years. In addition, he takes a trip a good deal for get the job done. Lately, this individual last but not least begin dealing with an engagement. But a year ago on kids escape, I stuck a glimpse of him on a dating application and, just a week ago, I was able to make sure that he could be continue to energetic about the same software.

I wish to inform his own sweetheart about his mental (and/or prospective) physical infidelity, but I know if I accomplish, she’ll allow him. I’m so ripped regarding what to try to do. Ought I tell my favorite prospective next sister-in-law my brother is, at the minimum, psychologically cheating?

Genuinely, Conflicted Brother

Good CB,

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