Immediately after conference we noticed we have been both musicians and began exercising some chamber music pieces together, which was really satisfying both for of us.
The truth is, he is bisexual and poly, and I also am monogamous (as much as I is able to see). I’ve not a problem utilizing the part– that are bisexual notice it as a positive– but I do not think I’m thinking about a poly relationship. At the least, i have never tried it. We knew these specific things once I came across him, but he appeared like a great individual that We had been thinking about getting to understand, therefore I made a decision to get in having an available head. I also think element of why i am drawn to him is basically because he is a more experienced and adventurous person (sexually and otherwise) because I think I can learn about myself. Additionally, he treats me personally a complete lot nicer than a whole lot of straight dudes have actually and it is simply more interesting become around.
Seeing that this example happens to be therefore amazing, i am not sure how exactly to navigate it. Genuinely, i do want to keep seeing him. But provided that we ( think) we want monogamy, is the fact that concept ridiculous? We have been likely to have a conversation later this week, and I also’m actually unsure things to say.
Cutting contact entirely appears like a shame, since we now have this kind of vibe that is great. Ending the musical collaboration appears such as for instance a pity too, as it’s already been enjoyable and we also’ve worked pretty difficult regarding the pieces currently. As well as the intercourse happens to be. the best of my entire life.. and since I have know you merely reside when, i am wondering if it is worth every penny to keep seeing him to discover what the results are.
I am not sure simple tips to navigate this. It really is somehow unethical for me personally to keep seeing him and playing music together, however in the rear of my brain comprehending that if We find an individual who wishes one thing exclusive, that I’ll stop seeing him? Continue reading