We played brain games whenever I first got hitched. I’d feel harmed, insecure, or frightened about something my better half said or did, and rather than speaking with him about any of it I’d communicate indirectly.

We played brain games whenever I first got hitched. I’d feel harmed, insecure, or frightened about something my better half said or did, and rather than speaking with him about any of it I’d communicate indirectly.

For instance, we felt insecure because he had been along with his ex girl for six years and we’d just been together for 2. About him keeping their old dresser and nightstand so I made a big deal. Continue reading