‘i’ve concerned about balancing time, which can be most likely a standard challenge.’

Keaira states it’s gotten easier since Quincy’s daughters went down to college because now they are able to go out after finishing up work more regularly, and more than before, and even slip in certain visits to each other weekend. Keaira states that within the past she attempted not to ever talk excessively about Quincy to Carl, but that it has been changing as Carl and Quincy are beginning to be buddies on their own.

The challenge that is biggest ahead inside her relationship with Quincy, Keaira claims, would be coping with the minute when he’s ready to inform their children about their relationship. “They understand I’m an individual with in their life that is father’s additionally they understand I’m married — how will you get from that, to ‘oh and by the means I’m also dating her’?; It’s gonna be hard nonetheless it’s a really far off connection at this time.”

Keaira’s advice to those who find themselves in a polyamorous-monogamous relationship is to talk to every one of your lovers, and your self, a great deal.

“Carl and i really do monthly ‘summit’ conferences where we take a seat to a fantastic meal and assess how we’re doing, where we struggled this thirty days, where we did well, and just just what we’re looking towards the following month.” Keaira claims this is really essential in early stages inside their relationship, because neither of them ever truly imagined being polyam until she came across Quincy, “and unexpectedly we’d an innovative new life we had been finding out which was both exciting and frightening, because we didn’t desire to fuck up everything we currently had together.” She says that being available and truthful is crucial. Continue reading →