You smudged. You truly blew it. Your lover is providing you heck about any of it, seething with hurt and disappointment. Guilt washes that you didn’t keep your word or your end of a commitment over you, as your conscious mind reminds you. Or perhaps you could have a more flippant attitude, “What’s the top deal anyhow? Get over it!”

In the event that you often feel just like it is better to place your mind into the sand and get passive, protect your self, or dismiss or deny your partner’s perspective once you screw up, you’re not alone. Continue reading →