Myth #6: All non-monogamous people are kinky

I’m gonna go ahead a directly blame the news for the presumption that, you must also be deeply kinky if you practice non- monogamy. Can the 2 occur together? Certain. Not fundamentally.

First, non-monogamy just isn’t kink in as well as it self. Nevertheless when individuals consider non-monogamy, their minds head to one destination – fast. Intercourse! Then non-monogamy must be about having sex with everyone, right if monogamy is categorized by not having sex with everyone? It should be about threesomes, and foursomes, and team intercourse, and orgies, and swingers events with fire respiration, fabric clad jugglers in nipple clamps moving through the chandeliers.

Um…no. The stark reality is usually much more tame.

Non-monogamy merely means, as we’ve discussed, the capacity to be with over only one individual. It will not imply that a person is fundamentally with numerous lovers simultaneously. Continue reading →